Noella Bergener has split from boyfriend Bobby Schubenski.
After dating just months after Bergener's split from former spouse James Bergener, who allegedly blindsided her with a divorce just as she began filming her debut season of The Real Housewives of Orange County, the couple called it quits.
And during a recent interview, Bergener explained what went wrong between them.
The Timing Wasn't Right For Noella Bergener And Bobby Schubenski
Noella Bergener may have split from boyfriend Bobby Schubenski, but that doesn't mean the Real Housewives of Orange County cast member has any ill will towards him. In fact, while discussing the reason behind their breakup, Bergener had plenty of good things to say about her ex.
"Bobby's amazing. I have nothing but love and respect and just a lot of gratitude for our path's crossing. A lot with relationships is timing and it just wasn't our time," Bergener told Us Weekly. "I think the most important takeaway from that experience — to tell all the ladies out there — just as important as it is to fall in love and have those feels, it's also equally as important to know when it's time to choose yourself."
'RHOC' Cast Member Noella Bergener May Have Issues Stemming From Her Past Relationship
According to Bergener, she may have "some PTSD" from her previous relationship.
"That's what I struggled with a little bit toward the end of, like, maybe I just have trust issues because my ex cheated me," she admitted.
Bergener also said that she needs to give herself time to be selfish and make her two children a priority.
"As great as a man can be and as magical as the [wedding] planning in your head is … it's about the day-to-day stuff," she explained.
Noella Bergener Knows She Can Be 'A Lot' In A Relationship
"Honestly, I just want a connection. I'm a lot," Bergener continued. "We all know that. From a mile away, you're like, 'That chick's a lot.' So if you're ready to ride this ride, pun intended. … The way I put it on my profile [was], 'I'm a tall drink of chocolate milk, so confidence is key.'"
Noella Bergener Claims' RHOC' Co-Star Heather Dubrow 'Can't Stop Talking' About Her
After filming the reunion special for season 16 of RHOC, Bergener recalled learning that Heather Dubrow had trashed her on her podcast.
She was "spitting mistruths and putting her spin on things. … She cannot stop talking about me," Bergener complained.
The Real Housewives of Orange County season 17 cast has not yet been announced.
]]>The Inquisitr
